With Amanda Testa

Let’s be honest—bickering sucks.

It drains your energy, creates emotional distance, and often leaves both partners feeling misunderstood and alone. But here’s the good news: it doesn’t have to be this way.

In this episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, You’ll discover why bickering happens (hint: it’s not about the dishwasher) and how couples can shift from reactive patterns into meaningful connection.

You’ll explore:
✨ The somatic reasons we bicker—and how to work with your nervous system
✨ One simple phrase that can interrupt conflict in the moment
✨ How to repair after an argument with grace and accountability
✨ A step-by-step structure for productive conversations (that don’t turn into fights)
✨ Why creating emotional safety is essential for erotic connection

If you're tired of the same old arguments or if you feel like your partnership has turned into a series of to-do lists and tense exchanges, this episode will help you course-correct.

DM Amanda on Instagram @abtesta to get 5 bicker breaker tips to stop arguing and start connecting again.

Download the transcript here. 

My name is Amanda Testa, and I'm a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation. 
I'm also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

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