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How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex (Without It Feeling Awkward or Leading to a Fight)

March 4, 2025

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🎙️ Episode 330: How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex (Without It Feeling Awkward or Leading to a Fight)

Have you ever wanted to talk to your partner about sex but felt totally awkward, unsure, or even a little scared to bring it up? Maybe you’ve tried, but it led to defensiveness, frustration, or straight-up avoidance instead of deeper intimacy.

If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

Even the most confident, high-achievers (yes, you!) can freeze up when it comes to expressing desires in the bedroom. We overthink, we worry about being too much, or we fear rejection… and so we just don’t say anything at all.

But here’s the thing—how we talk about sex is just as important as the sex itself.

That’s why, in this week’s episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, you’ll discover the exact tools and scripts you need to talk about sex with confidence, clarity, and ease—without making your partner feel defensive or shutting down.

You’ll Discover: 

— How to bring up intimacy in a way that feels natural and inviting

— Why nervous system regulation is key to sexual communication

— The biggest mistakes we make when discussing sex—and how to avoid them

— Playful, low-pressure ways to make intimacy talks fun and ongoing

Your pleasure matters. Your desires are valid. And you deserve a relationship where you feel deeply connected—inside and outside the bedroom.

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Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

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Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

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How Sacred Sexuality Revolutionizes Relationships

February 24, 2025

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🎙️ Episode 329: How Sacred Sexuality Revolutionizes Relationships

Ever wonder why some couples maintain that magnetic spark for decades while others fade into roommate status?

The secret isn’t what you think.

In this week’s raw and intimate episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I’m taking you behind the scenes of a powerful conversation with leading intimacy experts about how sacred sexuality is revolutionizing relationships.

You’ll discover:

— Why “just spicing things up” often backfires (and what actually works)

— How couples are rekindling passion after years of disconnect

— The surprising way trauma shows up in intimacy (and how to heal it)

— Why your “broken” sex drive might actually be working perfectly

— The missing piece that transforms obligation into opportunity

This episode is especially for you if:✨ You’re craving deeper intimacy but feeling stuck

✨ Your relationship has lost its spark

✨ You’re navigating body changes or health challenges

✨ Traditional relationship advice hasn’t worked

✨ You sense there’s more possible in love and sex

Plus, hear real stories of transformation from couples who’ve discovered how sacred sexuality can anchor relationships through life’s biggest challenges – from perimenopause to grief to global uncertainty.

Ready to revolutionize your relationship? Listen now!

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Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music.

I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development.

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice!

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

© Copyright Amanda Testa LLC.  All Rights Reserved

About Amanda


I’m Amanda Testa, a Sex, Love and Relationship Expert and founder of Find Your Feminine Fire. I help busy entrepreneurial mom's ditch the guilt and overwhelm and live a life with a lot more pleasure and fun.

My clients feel incredible in their skin, tap into abundant energy, take sex from a "to do" to something they look forward to, and enjoy better connection and fulfillment in their relationships.

She can be reached at amanda@amandatesta.com.

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I’m Amanda Testa.

I’m a Sex, Love and Embodiment Coach and founder of Find Your Feminine Fire.

My methods bridge ancient tantric tools combined with the latest in neuroscience to help high performing women ditch the guilt and unworthiness and embody confidence, radiance and vitality in all areas of their lives.

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