Pleasure, Permission, and the Power of Erotic Reawakening

With Pamela Madsen

Episode 351: Pleasure, Permission, and the Power of Erotic Reawakening with Pamela Madsen

This week on the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast, I’m joined once again by the radiant Pamela Madsen—somatic educator, author, and founder of Back to the Body. Pamela has guided thousands of women through powerful erotic reawakenings, and in this episode, she brings her signature humor, depth, and realness to the mic.

We explore what it means to reclaim desire later in life, how pleasure can become a creative force, and what happens when women finally stop tending to others and start tending to themselves.

Here’s what we cover in this juicy conversation:Why erotic healing doesn’t follow a quick-fix formula,and how immersion, sisterhood, and safety create real transformationThe importance of recognizing “dry roots” and giving yourself permission to feastHow women can start small (even with what they put on their plate) and begin reawakening their own erotic energy

Pamela reminds us that it’s never too late to return to our own bodies and that our erotic fire isn’t a luxury, it’s a foundational part of our overall wellness.

Learn more about Pamela’s work and upcoming retreats at www.backtothebody.org

Follow Pamela on Instagram: @thepamelamadsen

Read the transcript here.

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

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A New Position on Sex

With Dr. Juliana Hauser

Episode 350: A New Position on Sex with Dr. Juliana Hauser

Finding Sexual Sovereignty in Midlife: A Conversation with Dr. Juliana HauserAre you navigating the sometimes tumultuous waters of midlife transitions? Feeling disconnected from your desire or uncertain about your shifting identity? You’re certainly not alone.

In our latest episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire Podcast, I had the incredible pleasure of speaking with Dr. Juliana Hauser, a world-renowned sexologist, TEDx speaker, and creator of the Revealed Holistic Sexuality curriculum. With over 20 years of experience helping people liberate themselves from shame and confidently own their sexual identity, Juliana brings profound insights to one of life’s most transformative chapters.

Embracing the Metamorphosis of Midlife

“It’s an overall metamorphosis in midlife, from head to toe. You are changing,” Dr. Hauser explains. “I think we haven’t completely embraced that this change can really be a beautiful change if you understand that it’s coming and you can prepare for it.”

What struck me most about our conversation was Juliana’s emphasis on developing a “tolerance for ambiguity” during this time. Rather than fighting against the uncertainty of perimenopause, menopause, and other midlife transitions, she suggests learning to move forward without needing absolute certainty to feel emotionally safe.

This isn’t easy! Our bodies are changing, our hormones are fluctuating, and sometimes we barely recognize ourselves. But as Juliana reminds us, having agency – knowing your terms and living them – can be your North Star through these changes.

A Personal Journey Through Medical Agency

One of the most powerful parts of our conversation was when Juliana shared her personal experience with having a hysterectomy last year. With remarkable candor, she described how she applied the principles of agency to this significant medical decision:

“I showed up for myself,” she explained, describing how she prioritized her needs even when it felt uncomfortable or unfamiliar.

Juliana even filmed herself daily throughout the five-week preparation period, creating a video journal that later revealed themes she hadn’t consciously recognized – like her exhaustion from constantly “pushing through” difficult experiences, a pattern many women maintain throughout their lives.

Redefining Sexuality in Midlife

Perhaps the most liberating aspect of our conversation centered around holistic sexuality. As Juliana emphasized, “Being a sexual person isn’t about having sex. It’s about knowing a deeper layer of yourself.”

Her approach to sexuality encompasses nine pillars, with sexual acts being just one component. This expansive view gives us permission to explore what sexuality means for us now, not what it “should” look like based on past experiences or cultural expectations.

“I want you to wipe the slate clean,” she advised. “There is no one way to be a sexual person. There’s no one right way or normal way to have a sexual connection.”

This perspective feels especially freeing during midlife when physical changes might require new approaches to pleasure and connection. Rather than seeing these changes as losses, we can view them as invitations to discover new aspects of our sexual selves.

Creating a New Culture of Communication

Juliana’s passion for changing our sexual culture shines through in her call for more open communication. “Share and ask,” she encourages. “Share how you’re doing, share what’s working for you… and ask the people in your life that are going through this too.”

By normalizing conversations about menopause, sexual health, and pleasure, we not only support ourselves but create a more informed path for future generations. As Juliana pointed out, our generation has already made tremendous progress in talking about menstruation – now we’re building a similar revolution around menopause and midlife sexuality.

“We’re building the plane while it’s taking off,” she laughed, acknowledging that we’re figuring things out while simultaneously experiencing them.

Her new book, “A New Position on Sex: A Guide to Greater Sexual Confidence, Pleasure, and Authenticity,” offers a roadmap for this integration through the nine pillars of holistic sexuality, complete with personal stories, client examples, and practical exercises.

“Our sexuality is not a luxury, it’s a necessity,” she affirms. “And it’s not about how much sex you’re having. It’s the quality, it’s the purposefulness, and it’s the reason why you show up to yourself and other people as a sexual person.”

Join the Conversation

As we wrapped up our discussion, Juliana shared her dream of seeing book clubs form around her book, creating spaces for these vital conversations to flourish. “I think sharing our stories is really important,” she said, “and sometimes we do a good job of sharing the hard parts of our life, but we don’t do a great job sharing the good things.”

I’m personally inspired to normalize both the challenges and the joys of midlife sexuality. What if we could openly celebrate our sensual nature and sexual experiences with the same ease we discuss other aspects of our lives?

This episode reminds us that midlife transitions, while sometimes challenging, offer unprecedented opportunities for authentic expression, pleasure, and embodied wisdom. Rather than a decline, this chapter can truly become one of our most sexually sovereign and expressed yet.

P.S. You can find Dr. Juliana’s new book “A New Position on Sex” wherever books are sold, and connect with her at dr-juliana.com.

And check out my previous conversation with Dr. Juliana from March 2021 on The Power Of Sexual Agency.

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

© Copyright Amanda Testa LLC.  All Rights Reserved

Hotter Than Ever 

With Erin Keating

Episode 349: Hotter Than Ever with Erin Keating

This week on the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast, Amanda sits down with the wildly funny and deeply wise Erin Keating—host of the Hotter Than Ever podcast—to talk about what it really looks like to reclaim your voice, your pleasure, and your self-worth in midlife.

Erin’s story is equal parts inspiring, sobering, and hilarious. From the outside, she had it all: a big career, a house with a pool, twins, and a long marriage. But inside? She was exhausted, sexless, and completely disconnected from herself.After a COVID hospitalization, turning 50, and leaving both her marriage and her job, Erin started over. Here’s what we talked about:

Why her COVID hospitalization was a wake-up call—and the beginning of real changeWhat it felt like to leave a 17-year marriage (with 10 sexless years) and start dating againHow she reclaimed her pleasure through baby steps, honesty, and a lot of experimentationThe question that haunted her and ultimately transformed herWhat it looks like to build a business rooted in collaboration, creativity, and self-trust

This is a must-listen for anyone navigating the messy, powerful middle of life.

Connect with Erin:Instagram: @hotterthaneverpodWebsite: www.hotterthaneverpod.comLearn more about her new business at broadcollective.com

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

© Copyright Amanda Testa LLC.  All Rights Reserved

Riding the Real Waves of Midlife

With Amanda Testa

Episode 348: Riding the Real Waves of Midlife

Welcome to a deeply personal episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast. This week, I’m coming to you raw and unedited, sharing what’s been on my heart as I navigate the ambiguous terrain of midlife.

So much is shifting—and while some of it is magical, a lot of it is hard. Here’s what I’m unpacking in this episode:

What it feels like to be in perimenopause while parenting, working, and caretakingWhy I’m no longer trying to over-perform—and what “snudging” looks like in practiceThe grief of disconnection from friends and community—and the joy of reaching back outWhat’s changing in my relationship, and how we’re finding intimacy in unexpected waysHow I’m learning to sit with ambiguity, not-knowing, and surrender

This episode is for anyone riding the waves of midlife—or preparing for what’s to come. Tune in for a tender, real-time reflection on how to stay connected to yourself when the world keeps asking more of you.

Read the transcript here.

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music.

I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development.

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice!

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

© Copyright Amanda Testa LLC.  All Rights Reserved

Reclaiming Your Pelvic Power

With Jana Danielson

Episode 347: Reclaiming Your Pelvic Power with Jana Danielson

Have you ever felt like your core is working against you instead of for you? Or wondered why sex doesn’t feel the same anymore? You’re not alone—and this week’s episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast is here to change the game.

Your pelvic floor is so much more than just muscles—it’s a neurological superhighway that connects your brain to your entire body. In this episode, I sit down with award-winning wellness entrepreneur Jana Danielson to uncover the surprising truths about pelvic health and how you can reclaim pleasure, power, and peace in your body—starting from the inside out.

We cover:

The surprising science behind pelvic pain (hint: it’s not just physical)Why trauma and stress often manifest in the pelvis—and how to begin healingHow to improve vitality and sensation with gentle, daily toolsThe empowering backstory behind The Cooch Ball and how it’s changing lives

This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their connection with their body—especially if you’ve ever felt disconnected, depleted, or curious about how to access more energy and ease from within.

Resources Mentioned:

Cooch Ball Classic – $39.95Intimacy Bundle – $97Perimenopause Bundle – $97

Read the transcript here.

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

© Copyright Amanda Testa LLC.  All Rights Reserved

Embodied Facilitation & Planetary Pleasure: Reclaiming Power Through the Body

With Nadia Munla

🎙️ Episode 346: Embodied Facilitation & Planetary Pleasure: Reclaiming Power Through the Body with Nadia Munla

What if your body was not just your personal compass—but a radical force for collective healing and change?

In this powerful episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I’m joined by the incredible Nadia Munla—master embodiment teacher, speaker, and creator of Embody by Nadia™. With nearly two decades of experience guiding women into deeper sensuality, sovereignty, and self-expression, Nadia is a true pioneer in the world of erotic embodiment and somatic facilitation.

Whether you’re a coach, leader, facilitator, or simply someone longing to feel more alive in your body, this conversation will leave you both grounded and lit up.

Together we explore:

What it really means to “drop someone deeper” in your space-holdingWhy erotic embodiment is not frivolous and why it’s imperative for leadersHow embodiment isn’t just personal… it’s planetaryThe power of pleasure, rage, grief, and play as healing portals How to facilitate safely without rescuing or performingWhy reclaiming the full spectrum of emotion makes you a more magnetic, intuitive guide

Nadia also shares her wisdom on facilitating from a trauma-informed, body-led lens, and how reconnecting to our aliveness helps us reshape the world, one breath at a time.

This episode is especially for you if:

You’re a coach, healer, or leader who holds space for othersYou’re craving more authenticity, sensuality, and soul in your workYou want to move beyond the “good girl” mask and step into embodied powerYou know in your bones that your body holds the map to your liberation

Mentioned in the episode:

Embody Remixed: The Facilitator TrainingThe Free Gift: Purrr: 60 Minutes to Sensual BlissBook a Drop Deeper session at the $111 rate

Connect with Nadia:

Website: nadiamunla.comInstagram: @nadiamunlaLearn more about her facilitator training and offerings on her website.

Get the transcript here. 

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

© Copyright Amanda Testa LLC.  All Rights Reserved