With Amanda Testa 

Somewhere along the way, relationships became one more thing we’re supposed to be constantly working on.

What if the goal isn’t to become perfectly healed, optimized, regulated humans who finally earn the right to enjoy our lives , and each other?

Listen,  I’ve spent more than 12 years helping folks create better sex, deeper intimacy, and stronger relationships. I absolutely believe in doing the work.I believe in repair. I believe in accountability. I believe in having the hard conversations when they need to happen.

But I also think we’ve forgotten something pretty important:

You are actually supposed to enjoy the person you’re doing life with.

After years together, kids, work, hormones, aging parents, laundry, schedules, carpool and ALL THE THINGS…

it’s really easy to wake up one day and realize you’ve become excellent logistics partners…
but you’re not having much freaking fun together.

This week on the podcast, I’m talking about one of my favorite pieces of relationship advice:

LESS FIXING. MORE FLIRTING.

Because sometimes the thing your relationship needs isn’t another giant breakthrough.
It’s a little more aliveness.
A longer kiss.
An inside joke.
A flirty text.
Putting your phone down when they’re talking.
Sitting with them while they cook instead of doing one more chore.
Laughing your asses off.
Remembering…
Oh yeah. I really LIKE you.

In this episode, you’ll discover:
♥️ The sneaky way loving couples slowly become roommates without even realizing it

♥️ Why tiny moments of connection can have a much bigger impact than you think

♥️ Why more date nights might not actually be the answer

♥️ How to know when something genuinely needs repair… and when you might just need to stop processing and go have some fun

♥️ Why flirting is about so much more than sex

♥️ The everyday moments that help bring back affection, playfulness, curiosity and spark

♥️ Why your relationship doesn’t need to become another f&^$ing self-improvement project

♥️ The simple question that can help make your relationship feel 5% more fun this week

And a whole lot more.

If you’ve been feeling more like roommates, co-parents or logistics managers than lovers lately…
consider this your invitation to stop trying so hard and start enjoying each other again.

Enjoy!

Amanda

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My name is Amanda Testa, and I'm a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation. 
I'm also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

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