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The Pleasure Rebellion: Why Reclaiming Your Sexuality is a Radical Act of Power

February 11, 2025

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The Pleasure Rebellion: Why Reclaiming Your Sexuality is a Radical Act of Power

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🎙️ Episode 327: The Pleasure Rebellion:Why Reclaiming Your Sexuality is a Radical Act of Power

What if reclaiming your pleasure was the key to unlocking your deepest confidence, your most powerful leadership, and your greatest success?

  In this week’s episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast, I’m diving into a conversation that is more urgent than ever—why reclaiming your sexuality isn’t just about feeling good, but about taking back your power.

We are living in a time when women’s bodily autonomy, pleasure, and rights are constantly under threat. And yet, for centuries, we’ve been told to shrink, suppress, and silence our desires—in the bedroom, in our careers, and in our lives.

But here’s the truth: A woman who fully owns her pleasure is a woman who cannot be controlled.

In this episode, we’re uncovering:

🔥 Why sexual suppression is deeply tied to systemic power structures (and how this has affected women for generations).

🔥 How the “Good Girl” conditioning keeps you small, disconnected, and burnt out—and what to do about it.

🔥 The shocking reality of the orgasm gap (only 39% of women experience consistent pleasure vs. 91% of men—WTF?!)

🔥 How the lack of proper sex education keeps women uninformed about their own bodies (and why this is by design).

🔥 The hidden link between sexuality and success—why turned-on women make more money, set stronger boundaries, and lead with confidence.

🔥 What happens when women start reclaiming their pleasure? (Spoiler: Everything changes—your relationships, your confidence, your creativity, and your ability to RECEIVE.)👉 Plus, I share real, tangible steps to begin this reclamation NOW—including powerful journal prompts and embodiment practices you can start today!

Ready To Take This Work Deeper?

If you’re feeling this in your bones, if you’re ready to reconnect to your pleasure, your power, and your full radiance—join me to move from good girl to Turned On Woman.

It’s an activation of your most confident, magnetic, and wildly alive self.Apply HERE.

Episode Highlights & Timestamp Breakdown:

[00:01:00] – Why reclaiming pleasure is a radical act of power (and why women’s sexuality has been suppressed for centuries).

[00:05:00] – The orgasm gap & sex education problem—why women are kept uninformed about their own bodies.

[00:08:00] – The connection between sexuality, money, and success (why turned-on women receive more in ALL areas of life).

[00:14:00] – How powerful, high-achieving women still struggle to ask for what they want—and how to change that.

[00:18:00] – Why pleasure is not selfish—how reclaiming your sexuality benefits your relationships, career, and impact.

[00:22:00] – Practical embodiment practices & journal prompts to start integrating pleasure into your daily life.

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2️⃣ Leave a Review on Apple Podcasts—it helps more women reclaim their power.3️⃣ Apply HERE to dive deeper into this work—this is your time to say YES to pleasure.

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

© Copyright Amanda Testa LLC.  All Rights Reserved

The Secret to Feeling Cherished & Desired in Your Relationship

February 6, 2025

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The Secret to Feeling Cherished & Desired in Your Relationship

With Mark and Amanda Testa

🎙️ Episode 326: The Secret to Feeling Cherished & Desired in Your Relationship: Grace & Mercy in Relationships

Have you ever wished your partner just knew how to make you feel seen, cherished, and desired? Or maybe resentment has crept in, making it harder to stay connected and passionate?

If so, you must tune into this week’s episode of Find Your Feminine Fire! Mark and I dive into The Secret to Feeling Cherished & Desired: Grace & Mercy in Relationships—and this conversation is a GAME-CHANGER.

🔥 How grace & mercy unlock deeper intimacy and passion

🔥 The biggest reason resentment builds—and how to stop it fast

🔥 When to extend grace vs. when to set healthy boundaries

🔥 Why emotional safety is the key to keeping desire alive

🔥 A simple 4-step practice to create more love, connection & ease in your relationship TODAY

Without grace and mercy, even loving relationships can feel transactional or tense. But when you embrace these practices, you open the door to more love, ease, and delicious intimacy. 💫

Enjoy the episode!

P.S. If this episode resonates, please leave a review—it helps us reach more women who are ready to create the love & passion they deserve!

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music.

I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development.

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice!

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

© Copyright Amanda Testa LLC.  All Rights Reserved

Transform Your Relationship in Minutes a Day (Even If Your Partner Isn’t On Board)

January 13, 2025

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Transform Your Relationship in Minutes a Day (Even If Your Partner Isn’t On Board)

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🎙️ Episode 324: 5 Hot Habits That Transform Relationships (Even If Your Partner Isn’t On Board)

Have you ever noticed those couples who seem to radiate passion and connection, even after years together? Meanwhile, others slowly drift into roommate status, wondering where their spark disappeared to.

As a Sex and Relationship Coach for over a decade, I’ve discovered something surprising: the smallest shifts often create the biggest transformations in relationships. And the best part? These shifts don’t require hours of therapy or both partners being on board to start seeing results.

In this week’s episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I’m sharing five powerful yet simple habits that have helped hundreds of my clients move from disconnection to deep intimacy. These aren’t your typical “schedule a date night” suggestions – these are the deeper practices that create lasting change.

You’ll discover:

— A powerful mindset shift that transforms relationship dynamics instantly

— Why trying harder might be pushing love away (and what to do instead)

— The surprising morning habit that reignites passion

— How to break free from criticism patterns without stuffing down your feelings

— A simple daily practice that magnetically attracts more love

Plus, I’ll share how these practices laid the foundation for my own 14 year long marriage staying passionate and connected, even through life’s challenges.

Ready to transform your relationship? Listen to the full episode to learn all five habits and start implementing them today.

Want to take this work even deeper? I invite you to join me for Turned On Wealth™, where we’ll use sex magic and pleasure practices to manifest your deepest relationship desires. Learn more at www.amandatesta.com/turnedonwealth/

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Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

© Copyright Amanda Testa LLC.  All Rights Reserved

About Amanda


I’m Amanda Testa, a Sex, Love and Relationship Expert and founder of Find Your Feminine Fire. I help busy entrepreneurial mom's ditch the guilt and overwhelm and live a life with a lot more pleasure and fun.

My clients feel incredible in their skin, tap into abundant energy, take sex from a "to do" to something they look forward to, and enjoy better connection and fulfillment in their relationships.

She can be reached at amanda@amandatesta.com.

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I’m Amanda Testa.

I’m a Sex, Love and Embodiment Coach and founder of Find Your Feminine Fire.

My methods bridge ancient tantric tools combined with the latest in neuroscience to help high performing women ditch the guilt and unworthiness and embody confidence, radiance and vitality in all areas of their lives.

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