How To Get Out Of A Relationship Rut

With Mark And Amanda Testa

Are you stuck in a relationship rut? Let’s fix that! 💖

In this milestone 300th episode, I’m joined by my wonderful husband Mark to tackle a common relationship challenge: avoiding the dreaded rut of just “going through the motions.”

We get vulnerable about our own struggles and triumphs, sharing how we’re working to reconnect after a busy summer threw off our routines. Whether you’re dealing with lack of time, body issues, or difficulty expressing needs, this episode offers relatable insights and actionable advice to reignite your relationship spark.Remember, it’s normal to go through seasons in your partnership. The key is recognizing when you’re in a rut and taking proactive steps to climb out together. 

We also share insights as we celebrate our 14th anniversary!  

Enjoy the episode!

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

In this episode you’ll discover:

The top complaints couples face, from feeling disconnected to mismatched libidosHow to address sensitive topics like erectile dysfunction and libido changesOur personal experience navigating a “relationship winter” after travels and illnessCreative ways to stay connected when you have zero alone time (especially with kids at home!)The importance of putting down your phone and being present with your partnerPractical tips for investing in healthy longevity as a coupleTranscript available HERE

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 12 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Amanda Testa

Sex And Relationship Coach + Trauma Resolution Guide Helping Women Embody Shameless Pleasure In the Bedroom + Beyond

About Me

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What Is Embodiment And Why It Is Key For Better Sex

With Amanda Testa

Ready to go from “meh” to fully alive? Don’t miss this episode packed with actionable tips to ignite your Feminine Fire and transform your relationships!

Are you ready to unlock the secrets to better sex, deeper intimacy, and more fulfilling connections? Join me for this week’s episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire podcast as I dive deep into the world of embodiment and its transformative power in our relationships.

I’m sharing personal insights from my 14-year marriage and decade-long experience coaching thousands of students. 

Learn how embodiment practices have revolutionized my own relationship and can do the same for you!

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

In this episode you’ll discover:

What embodiment really means and why it’s not just another buzzwordThe surprising ways our bodies hold wisdom and how to tap into itHow to challenge unrealistic body image expectations and embrace real beautyPractical techniques to listen to your body’s language of sensationThe connection between embodiment practices and mind-blowing sexual experiencesWhy your pleasure potential is limitless (and how to unlock it!)Transcript available HERE

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 11 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Amanda Testa

Sex And Relationship Coach + Trauma Resolution Guide Helping Women Embody Shameless Pleasure In the Bedroom + Beyond

About Me

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

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Sex and Your Stars, Tapping Into The Erotic Energy of the Zodiac 

With Stefanie Weiss

What does Astrology have to do with your sex life?

In this captivating episode of Find Your Feminine Fire, I’m talking with Stefanie Iris Weiss, a clinical sexologist and astrologer, about her new book “Sex and Your Stars: A Sexologist’s Guide to the Erotic Energy of the Zodiac”.

Stefanie explains how astrology can be a portal to discovering our sexual selves and liberating our erotic energy. She discusses how shame often blocks our sexuality, and how markers in our astrological charts can help identify and work through those shame points to reconnect with pleasure.

Through the lens of astrology, Stefanie guides listeners to tap into their innate sexual vitality, gifts and superpowers based on their sun sign and other key placements. She shares personal stories and client examples to illustrate.

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

In this episode you’ll discover:

The erotic energies of the astrological seasons and how to harness them.Cultivating a sensual relationship with the moon and its cyclesEco-sexuality and finding eroticism in naturePractical pleasure practices to enhance your sex life, like the “Erotic Moon Gaze”And much more.Transcript available HERE

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 11 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Amanda Testa

Sex And Relationship Coach + Trauma Resolution Guide Helping Women Embody Shameless Pleasure In the Bedroom + Beyond

About Me

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

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The Future of Psychedelic Therapy 

With Sherry Rais

Unlocking the Future of Mental Health: Exploring Psychedelic Therapy 

This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the cutting-edge therapies transforming mental healthcare. We’re diving deep into the realm of psychedelic assisted therapy with a remarkable guest, Sherry Rais. Sherry is the CEO and co-founder of Enthea, and she has been at the forefront of blending purpose with professionalism, guiding entities from startups to global organizations like the United Nations and World Bank in achieving their mission.

In this episode, you’ll discover why Sherry’s work is pivotal in the current wellness revolution and how Enthea is making psychedelic therapy accessible to more people. With Sherry’s rich background in public policy, in-depth research in psychedelics, and her dedication to reducing human suffering, you’re going to gain some very valuable insights today into the future of mental healthcare.

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

In this episode you’ll discover:

Discover how psychedelic therapy has the potential to offer lasting cures for depression, PTSD, and anxiety in just a few sessions.Learn about Sherry Rais’s inspiring journey from consulting for the UN and World Bank to her pioneering work supporting mental health treatments.Find out why women are especially poised to benefit from psychedelic-assisted therapy and how it addresses unique mental health challenges.Explore how Enthea is making groundbreaking therapies accessible through employer benefits and a network of credentialed providers.Uncover the fascinating potential of psychedelic therapy for couples, enhancing emotional connections and intimacy.The promising future of psychedelic research and its potential to revolutionize mental health care.And much more.Transcript available HERE

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 11 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Amanda Testa

Sex And Relationship Coach + Trauma Resolution Guide Helping Women Embody Shameless Pleasure In the Bedroom + Beyond

About Me

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

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Unlocking The Power Of The Mind To Heal Chronic Pain

With Brandy Gillmore

Chronic Pain can be devastating to your relationships and intimate connection.

Do you or a loved one suffer from chronic pain? Have you ever felt the frustration of hearing there’s no solution for your suffering? If so, this episode is for you. Today, I’m thrilled to be joined by Brandy Gillmore, a researcher and mind-body healing expert with an extraordinary story of recovery and empowerment. Brandy shares her personal journey from enduring two devastating accidents that left her in extreme pain and reliant on a wheelchair, to discovering the profound healing power of the mind.

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

In this episode you’ll discover:

Brandy’s Remarkable Story: From a life-altering accident to becoming a beacon of hope, Brandy’s journey is both heart-wrenching and inspiring.The Science of Mind-Body Healing: Understand how our thoughts and emotions have the power to create real physiological changes in our bodies.Challenging Misconceptions: We delve into common myths about alternative healing methods and how Brandy’s research shatters these misconceptions.Techniques for Healing: Discover practical strategies, including the use of music to create new neural pathways and the importance of positive emotional patterning.The Power of Emotions: Learn about Brandy’s concept of “emotion-controlled consciousness” and how identifying and changing emotional patterns is key to healing.Medical Thermography: How Brandy uses medical imaging to demonstrate the real-time impact of emotional shifts on physical pain.Transcript available HERE

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 11 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Amanda Testa

Sex And Relationship Coach + Trauma Resolution Guide Helping Women Embody Shameless Pleasure In the Bedroom + Beyond

About Me

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

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Supporting Our Intimate Health

With Caroline Goodner

Our Intimate Health Is At The Center Of Everything.

We often don’t talk about common vaginal health issues, and the mental impacts of those issues. Today I’m talking with Caroline Goodner, the co-founder and CEO of OrganiCare, a leader in transforming feminine healthcare by making highly effective, natural products that are science-backed and available over the counter through national retailers. Listen in as we discuss promising solutions for common vaginal health issues, and why lifting the taboo around this subject is key.

We dive into the emotional and physical impacts of common intimate issues like yeast infections and bacterial vaginosis, and how having accessible, stigma-free solutions can be truly life-changing for women. 

Caroline illuminates the importance of prioritizing our intimate wellbeing, and how doing so can unlock greater confidence, pleasure, and wholeness in all areas of our lives.

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

In this episode you’ll discover:

The Power of Over-the-Counter, Natural Solutions and how this allows the freedom of being able to take care of these issues discreetly and on your own terms.The Profound Emotional Impact: We dive deep into how common intimate problems like yeast infections and bacterial vaginosis don’t just impact us physically, but can take a major toll on our confidence, relationships, and overall wellbeing. Reclaiming control over these areas has a profound ripple effect that resonates through every aspect of our lives.Unlocking Greater Confidence and Wholeness: When we prioritize caring for our most intimate spaces, something powerful happens. Caroline shares how this journey of self-care can be truly transformative, helping us step into greater self-acceptance, pleasure, and a more integrated experience of our mind-body-spirit.Destigmatizing Women’s Health: Perhaps most importantly, this conversation aims to continue dismantling the shame and stigma that too often surrounds women’s intimate health. By shining a light on these issues, we can empower each other to speak openly, seek solutions, and reclaim our Feminine Fire.And Much More!Transcript available HERE

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 11 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Amanda Testa

Sex And Relationship Coach + Trauma Resolution Guide Helping Women Embody Shameless Pleasure In the Bedroom + Beyond

About Me

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

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The One Thing You Can Do To Improve Your Relationship

With Mark and Amanda Testa

What’s the one thing I can do, such that doing it will make everything else easier or unnecessary? 

What’s the one thing I can do, such that doing it will make everything else easier or unnecessary? This episode was inspired by the book, “The One Thing” by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan.  My husband Mark and I talk about the power of focusing on one important thing at a time and explore how prioritizing your relationship can have a ripple effect on your whole life.

Maintaining a harmonious, supportive relationship has ripple effects that touch every corner of your life – from parenting to career success to your own personal fulfillment. When your primary partnership is thriving, it fills you with more positive energy, emotional balance, and motivation that carries over to how you show up in the world.

Tune in for powerful tips to make your relationship a top priority rather than letting it fall to the bottom of a long list of competing demands. By giving it the same level of focus and care that you give to your career or raising your kids, you set yourself up to reap the rewards across your entire life.

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

In this episode you’ll discover:

The Power of One Thing: Learn how zeroing in on one priority—like your relationship—can simplify everything else.The Multitasking Myth: Discover why multitasking isn’t as effective as we think and how focusing can improve your life.Daily Life Impact: See how a strong relationship boosts your success at work, with your kids, and in your community.Vulnerability & Communication: Find out why being open and communicating well with your partner is crucial, and some tips to make it easier.Setting Boundaries: Get tips on creating boundaries with technology to strengthen your connection.Having Fun Together: How to embrace playfulness in your relationship for more joy and intimacy.And Much More!Transcript available HERE

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 11 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Amanda Testa

Sex And Relationship Coach + Trauma Resolution Guide Helping Women Embody Shameless Pleasure In the Bedroom + Beyond

About Me

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

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New Solutions For ED 

With Dr. Elliot Justin, MD

Is ED causing disconnection in your relationship?

AED, AKA Erectile Dysfunction, can cause real struggles in relationships. And, ED is not just a later in life problem. 30% of men at the age of 30 suffer from ED. This number increases 10% every decade of age after. If this issue affects your relationship, you’re in luck as today on the podcast I’m talking with Dr. Elliot Justin, MD, FACEP, the CEO and Founder of FirmTech, the first sex tech company dedicated to improving men’s erectile fitness. He has a background in Emergency Medicine and healthcare technology consulting. 

By prioritizing comfort, pleasure, and data-driven insights, these products have the potential to revolutionize the way we approach men’s sexual health and well-being. To learn more about FirmTech and Dr. Elliot Justin’s insights, be sure to listen to the full episode of the Find Your Feminine Fire Podcast.

Ready to “put a ring on it”? Use my promo code “FIRE” for a 20% discount here.

Happily married for 35 years, and father of three children, Elliot and his wife Ann live in Montana with three energetic mares and a flock of chickens. He is a passionate trail rider who sometimes imagines, to his wife’s chagrin, that he’s a centaur.

Are you ready to take the next step in bringing back the passion to yourself + your relationship?

If you are ready to take the next step in reigniting your passion and enhancing your relationship then book your Free consultation call here.

In this episode you’ll discover:

Why ED isn’t just an older guy problem; men of all ages can experience it, and it impacts both their mental and physical health, plus often strains their relationships.What led Dr. Justin into sexual wellness and how he invented a smart cock ring that helps with ED and gives important health insights.We dive into why it’s so important to talk openly about sexual health and work on breaking the taboo around ED.Instead of just treating symptoms, we need to look at and address the root causes of ED for better long-term results, and why the typical solutions don’t work. Practical advice on how partners can introduce these tech solutions into their relationships to enhance intimacy and sexual healthAnd Much More!Transcript available HERE

About Your Host:

My name is Amanda Testa, and I’m a Sex, Love, and Relationship Expert + Trauma Resolution Guide.

My goal is to support you to heal your relationship to your sexuality so you can eliminate shame and guilt, own your sexy confidence, feel like a Goddess/Goddex in your skin, and have the deeply connected relationships you desire.

My unique proven process, The Feminine Fire Method™ combines the latest in neuroscience and somatic healing with ancient practices to facilitate rapid and lasting transformation.  I’m also a Mama to a spunky 11 year old,  Wife to my sexy hubs, and lover of outdoor adventure and live music. 


I believe deep in my soul is that sexuality is the missing key in personal growth and development. 

I believe your sexuality and sexual energy fuels your creativity, confidence, and power. It is a vital part of your holistic health and vitality.

When we own our sexual power our pleasure and creativity flourishes.  Our confidence and body image soars.

Our relationships deepen.

And when you can connect to that power in yourself, it’s life-changing.

Amanda Testa

Sex And Relationship Coach + Trauma Resolution Guide Helping Women Embody Shameless Pleasure In the Bedroom + Beyond

About Me

Get Your Sensual Activation Kit!

Sign up here to receive your free Sensual Self Discovery Journal, Self Love Meditation, And Activation Practice! 

Get It Here!

Pssstttt…I’m now booking coaching clients for 1-1 support in creating the relationship and pleasure of their dreams.

If you’ve been thinking about it, maybe we should talk! Click to book a free call to see if we’re a fit.

Book Your Call HERE

© Copyright Amanda Testa LLC.  All Rights Reserved